Wednesday, December 9, 2009

911 and another ER visit(s)

These last couple of days have been quite the emotional roller coaster for our family. As you've read in previous posts, we've been sick for quite a while. All of us. Well, this last Sunday night it hit hard. Both boys had had fevers off and on for about 2-3 days so when I laid them down that night, I gave both some Tylenol. Well, around 10:00pm, both Ben and I heard a weird noise. I can't even explain it or even mimic what the sound was. I got a feeling of dread and I knew something was wrong. I made Ben come and check on the boys with me because I was so scared. I went in to check on the boys and saw that Alex was fine in his crib and then checked on Aidan. When I looked in, I noticed he was convulsing, like he was throwing up. But nothing was coming out and I noticed that his eyes were open and rolled back. I freaked out, picked him up and he was dead weight, non-responsive. I freaked out and yelled to Ben that something was wrong. I pretty much threw Aidan at Ben and flew down the stairs to call 911. I ran back upstairs and Ben ran to get our neighbor to give Aidan a blessing. I was freaking out. The 911 dispatch kept telling me to calm down, it was hard I was shaking so badly. Aaron and Ben finally came back and they gave him a blessing while the dispatch was telling me how to help. The firefighters, EMT's and police officers all came and told us that he had had a febrile seizure. Aidan's body temp went up too fast and that was his bodies way of reacting to the fever. We took him to the ER and they monitored him for a while and then released us. His fever had gone down. They told us that the chances of him having another seizure in the next 6 months will go up by about 50%. Anyway, they told us to keep giving him medicine every 4 hours. So we did. He was find all day Monday and took his temp before he went to bed. It was at 101 so I gave him some med and laid him down. After the previous incident, my biggest fear was of him having another seizure so I went up to check on him again and he felt really warm. Again. So I brought him down to sleep with us. Probably not the best idea because my body heat raised his body temp. His temp got up to 105. We gave him some more meds and his temp went down to 103. I laid him down in the pack-n-play and checked his temp at around 7am. It was at 104, so we took him back to the ER. They got us right in and basically the diagnosis was, he just has a virus and there's nothing they can do for him but keep his fever down. Awesome! I've been an emotional wreck and am quite paranoid. But I've got a new appreciation for my family! I love them and I KNOW that the Spirit warned us that night to go check on the boys. I know it with all my heart! There was no way I could have ignored the feeling I had and the promptings. Aidan will be okay. No permanent damage happened but it was a very scary experience and I hope it NEVER happens again! I'm grateful for the prayers and help given by our friends and family. I'm grateful for a husband and friend who live their lives worthily to hold the priesthood and be able to use it whenever/wherever!

In other news, Ben will be leaving sooner than we thought and will be gone for about 9 months. We won't be able to see him at all during that time, unless we can visit him in Mississippi. So I plan on staying with my parents for about 4 months. We just found all this out last week!

Like I said before, I have a new appreciation for my little family. I love them so much! And we are trying to take advantage of all the time we have left to spend together! All these happenings really put things into perspective!

15 comments:

kylee said...

wow....I'm so sorry Shari. That would have been so scary! I hope everything is better now and stays that way.
And Ben gone for 9 months?! You're a better women than me. I don't think I could do that.

Taffy and Tony said...

Woah. That would be so scary. I'm so glad everything is okay. Maybe I'll get to see you some while you're in Cokeville!

Randi said...

Oh my goodness! I can't believe that I would have been freaking out too! I am so sorry that you had to go through that and poor little Aiden! And I agree with Kylee that is rough with Ben gone so long! Hang in there!

Sandi said...

(HUGS)!!! So sorry you had to go through all that! Being a Mom is SO hard, especially when things like this arise! I've heard of the seizures due to fevers thing...it happened to Chris's cousin's little boy! I'd have reacted the same way you did...although I think I'd have completely lost all sanity and sense of reason! I'm glad things are ok, and I wish you guys the best during your months apart from each other!

Camille Pedersen said...

wow, Shari... I was crying myself reading your experience. I can only imagine how scary that was. Thankfully your husband was home, right? With my Ben being gone so often, I don't think I could have handled something like that alone.

Hopefully those nine months will go by quickly.. and if you are in Cokeville and happen to come into Logan, I would love to connect up.. and your sister just came and said hi. turns out we're in the same ward. she's so cute, looks just the same!

Jennifer Sharpe said...

I am so happy your little guy it alright. That is so scary! Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you guys!

Anonymous said...

How scary. I am so sorry you had to go through that! I hope you guys get better and stay that way! Hang in there!

Ashlie said...

Glad everyone is okay. That would be very scary! Glad you're going to stay with family for some of the leave.

Hannah said...

Yikes Shari. I am so sorry, it sounds like you guys have had a rough couple of weeks. I am glad you are going to go home for awhile-- it really helps to be with family when your hubby is gone.

Katie said...

Oh no!! You are in our prayers.

Jonathan and Rachel said...

Shari! Wowsers... I 100% know the feeling of being prompted - being grateful that Jonathan holds the priesthood - AND grateful for doctors! I sure hope Aidan and ALL of you guys get to feeling better! Sad day that Ben is going to be gone - but I'm sure your family will be thrilled to have you "HOME!" Come visit us anytime -- we'd love to have you here too ... when are you guys headed out?? Love to each of you!

Tom and Jen Loveland Family said...

Hope you are all feeling better soon with no fevers! I am so sorry that happened, but am grateful that things are okay now. Why is that in the hard times, we seem to have more appreciation for things? I think my life would be a lot easier if I didn't need that constant reminder. I hope things go more smoothly for you over the course of the next few months.

Mike, Katie, Annali and Londyn said...

Ohh Shari, how terrible! Glad things are looking better though! You are a great mom and person and I'm glad I know you. Have fun in Cokeville with your family and we wish Ben all the best as he is away!

Micaela said...

Wow. That would be so scary. I would be freaking out too- probably for a little while after... I'm glad everything is better now! Thank goodness for the promptings of the Spirit.

I hope the 9 months will go by quickly, although by experience I know some days go by faster than others. :( That's great that you'll be with family for some of the time! Is he going to do some job training?

The Graves Family said...

Shari, we are so sorry to hear about all the trials your family keeps experiencing. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We love you guys!